Maybe he's not that in to you..?

Yes, I know I'm a lazy-ass blogger, but hey! I have my reasons and I have my dry-periodes. Bare with me.. Please..

Atleast, I'm done with freaken 12 years of school! I've graduated, didn't flunk any subjects or exams and now it summer vacation. What more to ask for? I'm leaving for London on Sunday with some of my best friends from class. Freaken awesome..! Think I really need to just get away from Oslo too, eventhough Oslo is actually a fab city at summertime.

But I just came home from Jessicas place. We watched "He's just not that into you", a movie I think almost everyone can relate to one way or another. Personally, I felt like it cleared up a lot in my head just watching that movie, but not all the questions in the world can be answered at the same time..

What I found out, or in my subconcious mind already knew, is that we women, girls or whatever you like to call us are naive, gullible and always hope things will turn out better eventhough they won't. This is also from selfexperience, and believe me it sucks. Because you kinda hardly never really know where you stand with the opposite gender. Some people say what you want to hear, but mean the complete opposite. Some don't say anything at all, and leaves everything to the actions. But when do you actually know when a person is interested or not? If there are feelings involved?

Love is so freaken complicated. No wonder they say it makes blind, because it really does. It blocks out your sense of being reasonable, especially when it comes to the "heat of the moment"-thingies. Still, love can bring so much joy. Maybe even joy you've never experienced in your entire life. Some people are lucky enough to find it many times, but the most lucky ones strike with one, and one alone.

But back to the point.. Eventhough we may be naive and gullible, it seems like we need these kind of feelings in our life. For without love, then how would we continue living? It brings a little extra excitment into our lives, maybe even boring lives. We just have to be patient. Cause even though you may get hundred, even thounsand of rejections, there is still a glimmer of hope. So, maybe the person you are kinda into now, who you think is into you to, isn't really that interested.. It's okey! For believe me, there really IS someone out there.. You just have to take your time looking. And this really involves patients..

So this was my time for tonight, I'ma sleep!


Speeks<3